Hurricane Amber has struck again

So I have been noticing more and more lately that whenever Amber comes home from her dads that whatever work I have done around the house is almost immediately trashed. Now this weekend was not much different, I spent time cleaning the rug, scrubbing the floors and bathroom along with a ton of laundry. The usual weekend cleaning yet within an hour of ambers arrival there is all the pieces of a craft kit spread out on the couch since amber needs to see all the pieces, a jump rope on the floor and a bunch of other miscellaneous stuff spread out around the house. It seems that no matter how much I try to tell her to keep her stuff picked up and in her room it doesnt stick or she forgets. Plus lately I am so tired by the end of the day that I dont want to have to have to clean house every single day well no more than the dishes and laundry lol. I get tired of living in a messy house so much of the time but dont see any way around it. Oh well whats a girl to do, Maybe I will threated to donate all her stuff again. It did seem to work one of the five times I have done it.